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Hello bloggers

Its amit here, blogging is new for me but i believe it going to be a great experience for me. I had the innate desire to write some book worthy to read and share the way i see the world out side and universe inside.Each one have different abilities ambitions and environment to achieve our desired goals or aspirations which most of you don't ever realized.

But i recognized this ambition in me to write and i feel blogging is good option to express and share the different views for world inside and outside. Apart of expressing ideas we can also share knowledge and skills to bring harmony in world and make earth best place to live with scene of brotherhood mankind humanity.

I try to follow god's path, live like god and never be 'god' because all I want is when my last time come I can smile and some beautiful princess like death come and kiss me to take my soul away .And that would not be the end of me. I would come again and again to live this holy gift of god called "life".

i know above lines would sound SAD to you but that is a fact too.I welcome you all to share your views and explore new truths of life ...I call it the University of Life where learning never ends ...

Take Care
Happy Reading
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Choose your attitude first then career @mit

"Attitude"--'A predisposition to behave consistently favorable or unfavorable manner with respect to given object or subject' is theoretical definition of attitude. In simple words, it is the way you behave or respond to different situations with different people. Now the days genX call it "atti"; a slang without really knowing what is exactly attitude.

What I want to say through this blog is 'Attitude' can't be changed in short span of time and most of time it happens that when you finish your college to start a profession you find it difficult to adjust with job . So, before making any professional choice make sure weather you have attitude compatible with that particular job. Choose the profession most associate or suit your personality; other way out is , Change your attitude according to your desired job ; of course it would take time and continuous focus to bring that change in youself.

The world out there is very good as well as harsh too, right flexible attitude very important if you really feel to remain competent and updated with industry.

Its easy to have a complex and rigid attitude as self concept dominates most of us ...so think on what attitude u hold...will it help u in achieving your goals.

"its simple to be difficult ,but very difficult to be simple" Most renowned people on top have this one attribute common "simplicity"

so , Shed/take off fake attitude and the develop one that suits you best , be yourself that's it.

Good lucks
@mit
amitindian05@gmail.com

CUSTOMER IS "Everything" ,BUT HOW TO RETAIN CUSTOMER

Customer was KING earlier ,then it become GOD for businesses and NOW CUSTOMER IS EVERYTHING.It is very difficult to attract a customer and even more difficult is to retain a customer. In today’s competetive world, every company tries to attract customers by low cost and high quality tactics, but cannot give as promised. There are some points which can help to retain our customer for long time:-

1. PROMISE: GIVE WHAT EVER YOU PROMISED

2. DONT HARASS, PROVIDE INFORMATION WHERE EVER NEEDED

3. PERSONALISE THE TALKS OR SERVICES

4. INTERACTION : INTERACT CUSTOMERS WITH CONFIDENCE

5. PROMT AND QUICK SERVICE

This Would Not only help you in retaining customer but also maintaining your image or brand loyality for your store , services or product.Would Like To Know Your Comments too..

Uncertainty-Recession and Optimism-Destiny

In this scenario of recession where companies are founding it difficult to sustain in market. Tools like Pink slips, temporary layoffs, salary cuts, reduction in operations and sundries expenses are being used by organizations to remain in market.In such a condition where Professionals are being fired around the world and companies are shrinking their operations or costs what are things can be done for 'getting rid of this situation' by the professionals. "what about those freasher who are coming out of Graduation and Post graduation colleges after completing their education" . Solutions are being proposed by experts to handle this situation like:->

1. Compromising with salary packages.
2. Updating skills with current scenario/requirements of industry.
3. Go for further higher studies.
4. Starting new venture (Entrepreneurship opportunity).
5. Reading Motivational Books for mental stability.

Hope One of these would provide you some direction and help...

This Uncertainty or recession in market is prevailing a fear in the minds of many with number of questions. I would like to share this blog with all people who are facing effects of this recession and want to know what you feel about this situation ...But one thing i would like to suggest to all " Don't get bogged up... This uncertainty can used as an opportunity to start some thing new ...Think Some thing more in addition to that 'what was thought before' ...I also some time feel that insecurity..fear..confusion.. But OPTIMISM and DESTINY are the words which are helping me in remaining calm & focused towards career and Future..
I would Like to Know What are the problems Marketing professional and HR Professionals facing due to this situation ? And what solution they have found for this problem?

Amit Live Like God ..

Communication At Work...Will work more If you Read This..What Say ? IT IS Victor's Article from Rite mail once again

Communications at work

Face-to-Face communications at work..

Today, most of your clients, colleagues and stakeholders are just a phone call or email away -- technology has made communication that simple. However, while tools like telephones and computers score high on convenience and speed, they lack the warmth and emotion that face-to-face communication provides.Appreciating colleaguesIn the words of Helen Keller, 'We are all walking with a signboard on our forehead which reads -- 'Appreciate me'.' It seems we have replaced the pat on the back with 'Thank you' and 'Good job' emails. But there is nothing that motivates someone more than seeing their boss walk up to them and appreciate them in front of everyone.Go to your colleague's cubicle and congratulate them on the great report they sent or the presentation they made recently. I remember one of my ex-bosses who used to call us team members to his cabin just to say 'thanks' and pat our backs. The team immediately took a liking to him as most people expect a warning or feedback when the boss invites them to their cabin."It's difficult to build rapport over an email; I would feel much better if my boss appreciates me in person," says Ashok Krishnan, a CA with Nestle.Criticising or providing feedbackWhen you provide feedback over an email or a phone call, the receiver may have a completely different perception about its relevance. This effect is amplified when you are not communicating face-to-face. The reader or listener may think you are cold and indifferent and that's why you avoided meeting them in person to discuss the issue. A face-to-face meeting gives you the opportunity to put your point across, while being sensitive and diplomatic at the same time."I have noticed that colleagues often use emails to avoid confronting the real issue. If someone fails to meet their target, I would prefer they tell me in person than offer an explanation over email," says Vidhanshu Bansal, a director with Pixel Webtech.Assigning new responsibilityThere is a great risk of the message getting diluted when a responsibility gets delegated through email or a phone call. Don't be surprised if your team does not show a sense of ownership or complete tasks on time if you are not communicating face-to-face. Nonverbal communication, such as tone of voice, facial gestures and eye contact help individuals understand the importance of a task and the need to complete it on time."We rely on conference calls, video conferencing and online meetings but, from my experience, there's nothing more impactful than meeting the team in person," says Delhi-based Ashu Gosh, a manager with Aviar IT Consulting.Damage control with clientsIf you haven't provided the product or service the client expected, you are putting your relationship with the client at stake. An apology mail would not suffice in a sensitive issue like this. Go to the client's office, if possible, without them having to call you for an explanation, and reassure them that the confidence they demonstrated when they gave you business was not misplaced. Your client would be pleasantly surprised that you took the time to come and meet them, especially when things went wrong."I used to interact on almost a daily basis with a client over emails without ever figuring out whether the person was male or female. When a report I was supposed to send got delayed, I made a rude comment about a female colleague which offended the client who happened to be a lady herself," says Deepak M.L, a manager with Convergys.Resolving conflictsWorkplace conflicts are common in most organisations. The lack of interpersonal communication only worsens the situation. It's important to remember that 55 per cent of meaning in an interaction comes from facial and body language and 38 per cent comes from vocal inflection. Only seven per cent of an interaction's meaning is derived from the words themselves. So, trying to resolve a conflict over email or a phone call is often a bad idea."A colleague complained about another colleague and copied the senior management on the mail. I was surprised to see that mail translating into a flood of mails providing and seeking explanation. The person who sent the original mail was just one floor above the person who was at the receiving end. I had to sit down with both of them in person to resolve the conflict," says Kailasam R, a manager with Lufthansa Airlines.Your communication style says a lot about you as a professional. In the words of Ralph Waldo Emerson, 'You are always under examination by people around you, awarding or denying you very high prizes when you least think of it.' So leave the comfort of your cubicle and build trustworthy relationships by communicating face to face.

Source Rite Mail Archive
Posted by Victor at 4:58 AM Thanks Victor once again if u reading this ..
Labels: Job

4 comments:
boa_jigs said...
nowadays people r making themselves to busy with laptops and systems that they dont know what they left behind..couse they r taking advantage of systems but they r notcoming in contact directly with oneanother...so at the end its a damage for personal development...someone says that'love is all about eye contact'...its good info for all type of people!!
November 10, 2007 7:35 AM
Shashank Gupta said...
I completely agree with boa_jigs, the electronic boom is just increasing the physical distance between the people and because of this we are heading towards a smaller world having long distances. Nice and thought provoking mail. Your work is appericiated and the appericiation is again in the virtual world only :)
November 12, 2007 10:51 AM
chandrashekar said...
The HR should be trained on this issue as most of the Hrs have become mouth piece of Managing Directors for their own survival. Even to conduct a class on importance of verbal communication they employ outsiders instead of doing it in house.They make hue and cry on appraisals and its importance but not bother to teach the managers on the importance of in person appreciation.All said and done the fellow who gets appreciated should get a feel of it than a ritual one
November 29, 2007 2:19

Impression: What are your expressions? Thanks Victor Once again for this articlle

7 Ways to Make a Good Impression

Impressions are important: They leave an initial taste in people's mouths that can remain prevalent for the entire relationship. If you are paranoid about what kind of impression you make, run through these seven list items and see if you are consistent with them; if you are, then you will probably expose the best of yourself. If not, then work to meet these standards.

1. Dress: The absolute first impression you will make on someone will be through your clothing, because that is what is seen from a distance, and cannot change throughout your meeting. Make sure to dress according to the situation-don't over or under dress-and maintain within the limits of good taste. If you aren't sure if what you're wearing looks good, ask people for an honest opinion. One last thought: always, and I mean always, pull up your pants.

2. Hygiene: Take a shower! Shave! Brush your teeth! You must be fully bathed and groomed before you meet with someone for the first time, because scruffy looking people generally don't seem as neat and mature. Pay attention to the little elements like breath: keep a pack of mint gum with you wherever you go, and periodically check to make sure you aren't killing bugs every time you breathe out. If you sweat heavily, keep a small stick of deodorant/anti-perspirant close, and if you notice you're stinking you can freshen up. People notice the minutiae!
3. Manners: At the table and with other people be civilized, polite and respectful: keep your elbows off of the table, open doors for people and address everyone-initially, at least-by their formal title. This will make an especially good impression on senior citizens, because you will prove that you aren't one of those "new fangled punks."

4. Speech: Have clean, clear diction and speak sans "like" or "you know." It is important to be articulate because that inspires a feeling of intelligence and education in the person you are meeting with. Always leave out profanity, and whatever you do, make sure to speak loud enough for all to hear, because conversationalists are easily agitated if you force them say "excuse me?" more than a few times.

5. Discretion: Choose what to share about yourself: forget to tell everyone about that time you went camping and ruptured your appendix, then fell face first into a pile of bug infested leaves-it is rude and will alienate you from the group. Try to withhold from conversations on personal subjects like religion or more disgusting topics like personal medical care. Before you speak, think about the possible impact of what you might say, then imagine its implications in the long run.

6. Humor: Humor can be your most powerful tool or your doom, because everyone has a slightly different sense of humor. What might be hilarious to you might seem disgusting to another, or vice versa. Try to withhold from any jokes that aren't family or dinner table friendly; you can tell those later.

7. Start and End with a Bang: I am a classical musician, and in my orchestra, among other messages, the conductor tells us that the "audience remembers mostly the first and last notes of a symphony." This is the same in a personal encounter: whoever you are meeting with will remember how you greet them, and then in what manner you left them. If you feel you have trouble with this, practice a few different phrases in the mirror, and introduce elements like: "pleased to meet you," or "honored to make your acquaintance." Ignore the antiquity of these phrases; it often makes them more memorable.

Making a good impression will set any relationship off on a good foot. If you are in a situation where you need to be judged at face value-such as a job interview or date-then make sure to go through this list and make sure you are within bounds of reason and good taste on all of your decisions.
Source Rite Mail Archive
Posted by Victor at 5:45 AM 11 comments
Labels: Informative,

Tips for improving Speaking voice , Thanks Victor for this article.

Jan 14, 2009

10 Tips to Improve Your Speaking Voice

One of the most important components of public speaking is the sound of your voice. It influences the impact of your message, and might even make or break the success of your speech. Fortunately, for many people, good voice quality can be learned.

Instructions :

Breathe from your diaphragm - Practice long and controlled exhales. When you speak, use breath to punctuate your point. For example, take a breath at the end of each phrase whether you need to or not. Use that opportunity to pause and let the listeners absorb what you say.

Use pitch - Lower pitches generally are more soothing to hear. However, modulating your pitch for emphasis will keep your listeners engaged. Develop your pitch by practicing humming.

Moderate your volume - Find out if you speak too loudly or too softly. When you begin speaking, ask your audience how your volume is (each situation is different). Try to stay at the appropriate volume throughout your speech.

Moderate your pace - This one is also closely related to breath. If you speak too quickly, people can’t keep up. If you speak too slowly, people will lose interest. Record your speech to determine if you need to change your pace. Get feedback from others.

Articulate - Try exaggerating your lip movement to reduce mumbling. Practice articulating tongue twisters and extending and exaggerating vowel sounds. Become an expert at articulating tongue twisters as quickly and crisply as possible. Focus on the ones you find difficult.

Practice your speech in advance and determine where you want to pause for a breath. For more emphasis, pause for more than one breath. Mark your breathing points in your notes.

Loosen up before you begin. Look side to side. Roll your head in half-circles and roll your shoulders back. Shift your rib cage from side to side. Yawn. Stretch. Touch your toes while completely relaxing your upper body, then slowly stand up, one vertebra at a time, raising your head last. Repeat as needed.

Posture - Stand up straight and tall to allow full lung capacity and airflow.

Record your voice repeatedly using different ways of speaking. Determine which one is most pleasing.

Practice breath control - Take a deep breath, and while you exhale, count to 10 (or recite the months or days of the week). Try gradually increasing your volume as you count, using your abdominal muscles—not your throat—for volume. Don’t let your larynx tense up.

Source: RITE MAIL BLOGS ARCHIVE
Posted by Victor at 7:53 PM (Thank you Victor)
Labels: Informative, Job, Notes

Speak Out or Listen Someone

Speak Out what u wanna say ...May be i would not be there to listen u other day ...May be u would not have time to talk to me other day...Today I am listening you, so speak out what u wanna say but can't say ...

A Heart or The God is saying these words, who knows ? SO
Stop for a while today listen to your heart you will feel different ,u will feel the motion of life, U will start seeking answers of Ocean Of Questions within u, that would be the life with reasons, lights. awakening ..and never ending Inlightment

Explore in side urself and then in the world outside ..you will found reason of everything out there in Universe...Life is one chance to live and become alive ...Speak out today all u wanna tto ask from urself , God , World or any one...Speak out! no body listen u if u dont say any thing...Speak Out all ur sins , shed ur frustation just be free of all the negatives of life to god...and start again to speak out on love, god, peace, Harmony, trust, care,happyness,laugh,smile,honesty,......there r lots of good things to say ...Just change ur outlook and negative things turn neutral or normal itself...

no matter weather u reach where u wanna to be or not...what matter is ur direction ,desires and deeds in life are right. Ur destiny will found u one day For Sure ...Happy reading tc bye

...@mit listening to you god !!!

Happy New Year and Happy Moments Of Your Life

Hi its 1st jan of 2009 ,and i would like to take this opprotunity to say Happy New Year to all humanbeings and human kinds a GREAT HAPPY PROSPEROUS YEAR AHEAD .

"people take resolutions for new year and promise themselves to avoid eliminate some things in thier life and adding some new good things in their living and ...i dont want to comment on weather they able to accomplish their resulutions or not. I just want to say that WE Dont't Have To Wait For One Whole Year To Take new resolution..."we shoul change ourselve as soon as we found any flaut in our living or feel need to add new thing in our living "

I am starting blogging frm today on first day of 2009 to cheak my writing skills and put my writing skills on test ...you too can start some thing this year and any time or day of this year if u really feel to add in your life ...Don't wait now ...just start and keep doing it ."

Every time when new year come we celebrate and welcome the new year with new hopes, resolutions, dreams, goals,aspirations and expectations of great times to come in that year.
For some new year is a Change, a new opprotunity to begin or start again,celebrations ,hope and for some it is just a new date.
Some people do not believe in this calendar in Indiaand have beliefon there traditional desi calendars based on natural cycle of seasons (summer autum spring winter) but still accept or use english calendar.

All i want to say is new year is not important ,start living life in moments ...and leave a mark in the hearts of people with whom u r living or interacting is important.
Wishing u Happy new year and Happy new few moments of reading this blog.

comments and ur knowlege invited at amit_indian05@yahoo.com

lets share and explore something new in everything

om gneshay namah ...its amit here for sharing my thoughts and little knowledge of everything.